Why Doesn't My Cat Like Being Touched?

Has your curious cat been getting a little hissy lately when you try to give them some TLC? Don't take it personally—cats can be pickier than a playground full of children when it comes to petting. Here's the scoop on why your furball might not be down for a snuggle sesh.

 

1. Too Much of a Good Thing

 

For kitties, their sense of touch goes into overdrive compared to us humans. What is a gentle pat on the head to you can feel like a full-on massage to them! Keep those scratches around kitty's cheeks and chin delicate, and don't go overboard down their back.

 

2. Cats Need Their Space

 

Your cat is a territorial tigress, and what's theirs is THEIRS! They won't take kindly to having their safe space invaded. Make sure Miss Whiskers has a variety of perches and hidey-holes to retreat to when she needs some alone time. Let her come to you first before doling out the pets.

 

3. Ouch! Pain Makes Kitties Cranky

 

Cats are stealthy when something is hurting. If your normally affectionate buddy hisses or nips when touched, check them over for injuries, sore joints, or other ouchies. And don't poke the poked kitty! Back off if they seem scared or annoyed.

 

4. Show the Love Their Way

 

You and your cat just might show affection differently! While they may not melt over pets, try playing with fun feather toys, sprinkling tasty treats, or just sitting calmly together. Build that bond bit by bit.

 

5. Every Cat Has Pet Peeves

 

Learn what makes your unique furball purr...and what makes them yowl! Take note of their favorite scritch spots. The base of the tail and ears are hot spots for most kitties. Let your cat guide you to their happy places, and avoid anywhere ticklish!

 

So don't stress if your feline gets fussy over pets. With trust and patience, you'll both find the perfect way to cuddle up. Now go get that catnip mouse!